The Best Big Three Moments On This Is Us Ranked

This article contains spoilers for "This Is Us." 

NBC's "This Is Us" has been a beloved family drama ever since its premiere in 2016. The show shocks audiences with its flashback and flash forward twists, revealing in the pilot that the main characters are related and we were watching the story of a family unfold. Milo Ventimiglia and Mandy Moore star as Jack and Rebecca Pearson, a couple who meets in the '70s, marries and has kids in the '80s, and raises them to teens in the '90s. Decades later, their kids, Kevin (Justin Hartley), Kate (Chrissy Metz), and Randall (Sterling K. Brown), live apart but remain close. Randall is a successful businessman but as a young Black boy adopted by a white family, his search for his biological parents kicks off some underlying traumas. Kate struggles with weight issues, and Kevin, a handsome and successful actor, lives a rather empty life.

There are tons of other characters that come into and leave their lives, but the Pearson siblings are called the "Big Three" of 'This Is Us." Family patriarch and all around super dad Jack coins the term, making little onesies for them with the labels, and even makes up a chant for them, which we'll get to later in this list.

"This Is Us" is one of those relatable but heartbreaking shows with a zillion touching moments, most of which revolve around the Big Three. Here are the Big Three's best moments on "This Is Us," ranked.

Season 4, Episode 5, called "Storybook Love," revolves around two separate dinners had by the Pearson family. The first is with Jack and a pregnant Rebecca, planning their first dinner in their new home. Their journey is reflected in the other dinner, which happens after Jack's death and features the introduction of the Pearson triplets' significant others. Both dinners are set up in courses: Hors d'oeuvres, salad, entrée, wine, and pizza.

In the later dinner, Kevin has just married Sophie, Randall brought Beth home for the first time, and Kate's jerky boyfriend, Mark, also shows up. Oh, and Miguel has started hanging around a lot, too, causing a bit of conflict among the kids and their mom. Of course, the Big Three rag on each other about their various partners. Kevin gets a knock for marrying so young. Kevin calls Mark too old for Kate. And poor Beth gets caught up in a hot sauce drama that catches her good intentions off guard. But in the end, the Pearson Big Three have a sweet teenage talk about it, and make up after the fight, over pizza. 

The Season 2 mid-season premiere picks up after a set of traumatic events. Kate had a miscarriage and Randall's foster child, Deja, returned home to her mom. So when the two siblings arrive at Kevin's rehab center for family day, they're already reeling with their own emotions and pent up frustrations. So there's no doubt that some of their own issues are going to come into play, even if the day is supposed to be about Kevin and his recovery. Rebecca joins in as well, but obviously this is about the Big Three.

Toby, Beth, and Miguel also attend, but when the therapist suggests they sit out for a bit, that trio rightfully heads to a bar. In the therapy session, Kevin explains that he always felt like the "fifth wheel" of the family (which is where the episode gets its title) when it came to Kate's closeness with Jack and Randall's closeness with Rebecca. He tried to fill this void with things like football and acting, but eventually he filled it with drinking. When Kevin forces Rebecca to admit that Randall was her favorite, she explodes, saying, ""He was easier, and he didn't recoil when I touched him. And he didn't abandon me and move away after his father died." After the fight, the Big Three have their own moment of making up, and heartbreaking flashbacks show just how left out Kevin always felt. 

Season 4, Episode 14 has two moments on this list, the second of which ranks higher in terms of touching moments between the Big Three. This one in "The Cabin" revolves around teenage Kate and her boyfriend, Mark, whom she met while working at the music store. Mark isn't exactly a great guy. He's kind of mean to Kate, drinks too much, digs on the things she likes, and makes jabs about her weight. But like many insecure teenage girls, Kate puts up with it, believing that he's the best she's going to get.

So when Kate and Mark head up to the Pearson family cabin, something seems off. Rebecca, Randall, and Kevin drive up after her, with Randall and Kevin arguing about how they shouldn't have let her go, how Kevin is never there, how Randall is too hard on him. Meanwhile, Rebecca just trying to make it up to the cabin in the snow storm. When they finally arrive the next morning, it's revealed that Kate and Mark had gotten into a fight, Mark locked Kate outside in a blizzard, and she cut her hand while breaking the window trying to get back in. Rebecca's fierce mama bear reaction, combined with the brothers' absolute death stares at Mark, is enough for Mark to finally get the hint and leave for good. Kate collapses into Rebecca's arms, crying, and the kids have a protective moment with each other as well.

This next entry is another early in the series moment that really told the audience how close the Pearson Big Three really are. After the surprising twist ending of the pilot episode of "This Is Us," where we learned that Jack and Rebecca are actually the parents of Kevin, Kate, and the adopted Randall, the series second episode moves on to how their lives have been shaped by their childhood experiences and how they act as adults as a result.

This Big Three moment comes after Kevin has to crawl back to the network big-wigs at an industry party. He brings Kate and new boyfriend Toby along. Kate gets a bit drunk and she and Kevin call Randall. When Kevin says to Randall, "I was not a very good brother to you, was I?" Randal responds, "No, you weren't, but you've still got time." Then Randall starts the Pearson Big Three chant. Invented by their dad, Jack, the chant goes like this: Kevin says, "First came me and dad said, 'Gee!'" Kate says, "Then came me, and mom said, 'Whee!'" And Randall says, "Then came me and they said, 'That's three!'" And they all shout, "Big three! Big three!" The chant has popped up in a number of episodes since this early one, and the cast members have even performed the chant on various talk shows and public appearances. The chant solidifies their connection and is a reminder when in troubled times to always consider themselves the Big Three. 

Season 5 and the birth of Kevin and Madison's twins led up to a few weddings at the end of the season. The first was an adorable one between Jack and Rebecca, set up by their kids in order to have them make up from a fight. The second was in a shocking flash forward that showed us Kate getting married again, though not to Toby, but in some sort of renewal to her British music teacher boss, Philip! But the big wedding that takes up most of the episode is Kevin and Madison's.

The flashbacks here also visit Madison's family, her mother's abrupt departure, and her father's poor relationship skills, which are probably what leads Madison to have an eating disorder and have problems in her own relationships. In one flashback, her dad tells her not to be choosy about boys, that she should take whatever she can get. This mentality is probably what leads to her accepting Kevin's proposal to begin with. But eventually, Madison comes to her senses. She can't marry someone who's not in love with her, she says, and calls off the wedding to Kevin. 

Thankfully, Kate and Randall are both there to help Kevin through his tough moment. And even Rebecca has her own method of getting Kevin out of his funk: She wants Kevin to build the house Jack designed for them by the cabin. The Big Three (and their mom) came through for Kevin in a tough time.

For much of the first few seasons of "This Is Us," the relationship between Jack Pearson and his little brother, Nicky, was a mystery. Their younger years, shown in flashbacks, show just how abusive their dad was towards both of them, though more so toward Nicky. Jack and Nicky were both sent to fight in Vietnam, with Jack basically trying to protect his little brother the whole time, but Nicky growing more and more despondent. The audience was under the impression that Nicky had died in Vietnam, but Kevin and Zoe's trip to Vietnam uncovered a hidden secret: not only did Nicky survive, but Jack knew about it.

So in Season 3, Episode 11 when the Big Three finally meet their Uncle Nicky, there's a lot of baggage to unpack. They learn about Nicky's past in Vietnam, how he accidentally killed a child, his return to the U.S., his own alcoholism and how he communicated with Jack when they were kids. Their trip to visit Nicky is tinged with betrayal; their dad knew Nicky was alive and didn't tell them. Nicky has to tell them the horrific story of what pulled him and Jack apart. At the same time, the Big Three have to inform Nicky how and when Jack died. The moments are incredibly sad, but the Big Three learning that they have a new family member is somewhat of a consolation, especially considering how much Nicky becomes involved in their lives in the later seasons.

Another early in the series episode features one of the Pearson Big Three's best moments. Season 1, Episode 4, called "The Deep End," finds the Pearson family heading to the pool on a hot summer day after the air conditioning goes out. Rebecca learns a few lessons in parenting a Black child when she encounters a group of Black moms. They're both a little judgmental towards each other, but in the end, Rebecca humbly asks for some help. Meanwhile Kate's friends write her a mean letter criticizing her weight with a cruel drawing of a pig. Then, Kevin almost drowns in the pool, and he yells at his parents for being too concerned about Kate's eating and Randall's race to notice him.

But the touching moment comes towards the end of the episode when the Big Three, or the Big Five, rather, can finally all relax together. You see, pretty much everyone in their neighborhood had the same idea to go to the pool, so they couldn't all find seats together. The final moments of the episode see the family all squished onto a lounge chair, snuggling and tired out after a long day at the pool.