The Tragic Real-Life Story Of Robin Williams

The couple had children from former partners, but Robin Williams was the only shared child of Laurie and Robert Williams. Robert was an executive at Ford, and the family lived in the well-off neighborhood of Bloomfield, MI. Yet Williams, despite growing up with the trappings of wealth, was lonely.

As recounted in David Itzkoff's Robin Williams biography "Robin" and referenced by comedy writer Merrill Markoe in her review of the book, his mother would later admit "I didn't realize how lonely Robin had been ... [he] had some very lonely years. You think you're being a wonderful mother, but maybe you aren't." It seems Robin actually saw his mother as a source of inspiration.

A Rolling Stone article quotes Robin admitting as much. "The first laugh is always the one that gets you hooked," he pointed out. "For me, it was my mother. I was always trying to make her laugh."

One also can't help but think that it was perhaps this childhood, often alluded to by Williams as one with two somewhat absentee parents, that inspired him to try and be the best father he could when he had his own children.

Gerald Nachman's 2004 book "Seriously Funny: The Rebel Comedians of the 1950s and 1960s" quotes Robin Williams describing comedy as "a brutal field" and musing, "They burn out. It takes its toll. Plus, the lifestyle — partying, drinking, drugs. If you're on the road, it's even more brutal. You gotta come back down to mellow your ass out, and then performing takes you back up ... Sometimes they just give up."

Williams came up in this challenging, hard-living world of 1970s standup comedy. When it comes to comedians who partied hard, though, few were as widely known for their hard living as Williams' friend John Belushi. Williams and Belushi were together the night that Belushi fatally overdosed — and understandably, the loss hit Williams hard.

"Here's a guy who's a beast, who could do anything, and he's gone," Williams later reflected. "That sobered the s*** out of me." This period of sobriety helped Williams build his career and focus on raising his son, but it didn't last. "Cocaine for me was a place to hide," Williams admitted. "Most people get hyper on coke. It slowed me down."

After Williams' death by suicide, numerous reports detailed his lifelong experiences with depression, but his family was quick to make it clear that depression was not the main factor. "It was not depression that killed Robin," Williams' wife Susan told People. "Depression was one of let's call it 50 symptoms, and it was a small one." On the other hand, a Guardian article describes Susan telling ABC News that Williams had been sober for eight years before his death, but his chronic depression had resurfaced.

Whether clinically depressed or not, Robin was constantly worried about losing everything he had worked for.

"Dad's happiness was correlated very much to how he was doing career-wise," Williams' son Zak later reflected. "When there were films that would be less successful, he took it very personally. He took it as a personal attack. That was really hard for us to see."

Itzkoff writes in "Robin" that Williams worried "that his position in the comedy world could be usurped at any moment by a younger, up-and-coming star," with Jim Carrey mentioned as a specific source of anxiety.

Williams' friend, Monty Python vet Eric Idle, believed depression had some effect on Williams' final days. Speaking with Vanity Fair about a time when Williams was supposed to come to London to participate in an Idle project, he recalled, "He said he could come, but he didn't want to be onstage. I said, 'I totally get that.' Because he was suffering from severe depression."

In a Vanity Fair-published excerpt from David Itzkoff's book "Robin," the author recounts Williams' mounting health issues in his finals days. "By the time he reached Vancouver [to film for "Night at the Museum: Secret of the Tomb"], Robin's weight loss was severe and his motor impairments were growing harder to disguise," the book alleges. "Even his once-prodigious memory was rebelling against him; he was having difficulty remembering his lines."

It was no secret that Robin Williams wasn't himself toward the end. In his review of Williams' CBS series "The Crazy Ones," Boston Herald critic Mark Perigold wrote, "Williams seems exhausted. So is this show." This exhaustion was perhaps one of the most worrisome symptoms; Rolling Stone told the story of how Williams became obsessed with biking and once even outran his guide, who was 20 years younger, on a Tuscan bike tour.

Itzkoff wrote that while shooting "Crazy Ones," "Robin was now gaunter and grayer than viewers were accustomed to seeing." When Williams was diagnosed with Parkinson's in May 2014 it at least explained what was happening to him — although for a man whose career was grounded in quick physical actions, that prognosis carried its own heavy burden.

Addiction is a disease that seems to affect some families more than others — and that's been the case with the Williams family, as Robin's son Zak has experienced his own issues with substance abuse.

As recounted by the Daily Mail, Zak appeared on Prince Harry and Oprah's mental health-focused docuseries "The Me You Can't See," saying, "As an adolescent I found using alcohol and drugs helped me calm my mind" and adding, "It became a very normal experience to rely on them and things like that to manage the racing mind ... I started to realize elements of myself that were like [Robin]. My anxiety, my bouts of depression, OCD, drugs, drinking like him."

Further connecting his own experiences to his father's, Zak went on to explain, "There's a generational issue going on. I've experienced mental health issues my entire life." Now a father himself, however, he has vowed to "break the cycle."

Robin Williams has been immortalized by his many unforgettable performances. His standup is the stuff of legend, and even today, watching one of his old routines can bring even the most jaded viewer to uncontrollable fits of laughter. Following his death, he left another legacy — one that may have a more profound effect on the people who most need it.

As stories about his life have come to light, the world has increased its discussions of such long-taboo subjects as depression, substance abuse, and the pressures of living in the public eye. It has maybe made people more cognizant of the emotional hardships often endured by those who entertain us, making us laugh and cry and feel part of the human experience through their work. The tragic details of Robin Williams' life have prompted us to look at those people who seem to have a perfect life and try to look past the mask.

Not only will we forever have the Genie from "Aladdin," Sean from "Good Will Hunting," and Adrian from "Good Morning Vietnam" — among many other roles — but we will also have Robin Williams himself, a man whose story offers an ever-timely reminder that everybody needs support and understanding.